Most relationships don’t end in a dramatic explosion. They end in a slow, quiet drift...
- A series of unresolved hurtful moments.
- The same arguments over and over, just wearing different clothes.
- The feeling you’re talking at each other instead of with each other.
And eventually… one of you stops reaching for the other.
In this vulnerable conversation with my friend, Emilia Niglas, we talk about what’s actually happening before people decide they’re “done.”
Not the breakup. Not the divorce....
The part that comes before all of that.
You’ll finally understand what your fights are really about - before they cost you the relationship.
We talk about...
- The well-intended move that actually makes conflict worse (almost everyone does it).
- How trying harder can quietly push your partner further away.
- Why the same fight keeps repeating no matter how many times you swear you’ll do it differently, and...
- The part of conflict people avoid because it feels too risky - and why it matters most.
- I also share my own story... and the uncomfortable truth I learned after my divorce.
This isn’t a polished performance.
And it’s definitely not relationship advice shouted from a mountaintop.
It’s a real conversation about how relationships actually work…
and how most people were never taught how to move through conflict without hurting each other.
If your relationship feels tense, stuck, or quietly fragile…
If you’ve caught yourself wondering whether things can really change…
Or if you just want to understand conflict instead of fearing it…
This conversation is for you.
Take your time with it. Let it land.
And if you loved it, share it with someone you love.
